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This week has brought a couple of occurrences that prompted me to take a fresher look at the world around me. Children do that so well, don’t they?

Monday was Earth Day. Did you celebrate in any way? Did you even know? I have to admit that my answer to both questions is no. At least not until my daughter shared some pictures of what my five-year-old sweeties chose to do on their own. They go to afternoon kindergarten, so early that morning, they suggested to their mom that they go to a local park where they often play to pick up trash. “Let’s make it cleaner for us and our friends to play,” they said.

cleaning barney park

This wasn’t a school project, or a community activity. Just two little girls thinking on their own that they actually had the power to make their surroundings better for themselves and for others.

Grownups tend to lose that assumption somewhere along the way, don’t we? Not entirely, of course, or else we would be living in chaos. But we get discouraged with political processes, from the local to the national and in between. We get so busy with our daily lives that we allow others to spend their time keeping the PTA and Little League and church activities going. It is so easy to get overwhelmed with the bigness of the world and the enormity of our challenges that we forget that we do have the power to make a difference.

I remember feeling that I could change the world, believing in my youth that if everyone would pitch in, all of life’s problems could be fixed. I felt powerful and energized. But I, too, lost those feelings as time went by. I still worked hard in a career in social services and as one of the “regulars” of the PTA, et. al. But as time went by, I narrowed my view of what I could actually accomplish and lowered my expectations.

My sweeties reminded me of the bliss that comes from naturally and child-ish-ly believing that the world is mine to enjoy and to influence. Maybe if we can somehow hold onto that assumption and couple it with the practicalities of adulthood, we can use that feeling to fuel a renewed commitment to contributing to our world in meaningful ways.

So, enough of the seriousness. I want to share an absolutely hysterical video I stumbled upon this week. This is one child who knows her own mind!

My guess is that this young lady has been reminded, perhaps numerous times, to worry about herself! She does have lovely manners, though, doesn’t she? She remembers to add the “Thank you” after her sternly delivered “No!”

Thank you, Ryan Hunley, for posting this!

Here’s a picture of some joy I stumbled on myself this week! colorful chairs

Ever since visiting the Outer Banks last summer, I have been searching for the regular size of these chairs, which can be seen all over the Hatteras Island. Their colorfulness makes me smile. I haven’t had any luck, however, in my search. Not until earlier this week, when I discovered these children’s versions. I just had to have them. Although I can’t fit into them, every time I see them when I walk past my kitchen door or window, I brighten up, excited for the approaching summer.

Laughter and joy. They come so naturally to little ones. And they can spread to us like pixie dust if we just take the time to slow down and breathe it in.

Happy spring! I hope you find lots of pixie dust on your way to summer!

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Arches National Park

Last month, Husband and I drove from our home in Pennsylvania to Arches National Park in Moab, Utah, to visit Son Two, who is a park ranger. He has a ranger hat and everything. So cool.

But, I digress. I thought I’d throw out a few random tidbits about that vacation before leaving in a few days for another adventure—a week at the beach with Daughter and her family—her husband, nearly five-year-old twin girls and nearly one-year-old boy. Now, that’s going to be a whole ‘nother kind of escapade, don’t you think?

Grand Canyon

So, back to Utah. If only. It is so incredibly beautiful. As are the Rockies, and the endless fields of Missouri and Kansas. And the Grand Canyon. I can barely find words to do justice to the majesty and beauty of the Grand Canyon.  The United States is such a geographically diverse country, and all of it so gorgeous in its own unique way. From endless miles of flat plains to snow-covered mountains to lush green rolling hills, we oohed and aahed our way back and forth across the country for two weeks. Before we were even home, Husband was planning next year’s trip, and he’s never been a big fan of traveling.

Chinese food by the scoop

I experienced a number of firsts on this trip, some hard to believe given my age (early grandmother-ish), but all true. I ate Thai food for the first time, as well as my first corn dog. Chinese food delivered to my hotel room was also a first; not for the Chinese food itself, but Chinese food delivered. (I also learned that Chinese food can be priced by the scoop, at least according to the sign outside the Chinese restaurant next to our hotel in Moab. Who knew?) Oh, and duck and tamales; in fact, it was a duck tamale that melted in my mouth at dinner one evening. We ate our way across the country at some of the greatest little diners America has to offer. Diner food is our absolute favorite food ever, and we indulged every chance we got. Milt’s Stop and Eat in Moab has awesome burgers and I don’t know what they do to their tater tots, but you won’t find any better anywhere, I’m sure. If you ever stop to visit the Oz Museum in Wamego, Kansas, make sure to go across the street and have lunch at the Friendship House Bakery and Catering. 

Although I love traveling, as well as tourist-ing, as I get a little older, I also get stressed when I have to sleep away from home. I get a little anxious when I don’t have my evening routine, and my favorite TV programs, and my own comfy bed. It helps this part of the story to know that I’m a borderline germophobe, and truth be told, when it comes to hotels, I easily cross the border into full-out crazy. One day, we figured that by the time we were done driving for the day, we’d be in the middle of two fairly populous areas, leaving open the possibility of not finding a motel. (We were living on the edge; on the way out, we made hotel reservations for each night, but we threw caution to the winds and were “winging it” on the way back.) Realizing that such an approach would be too much for my stress load, we discussed, twice, stopping around Amarillo; we decided, twice, to stop around Amarillo. And yet, for some reason known only to Husband, I was left watching Amarillo in the rearview window, as we continued on to… (more…)

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Husband and I are early in our two-week odyssey across the USA, driving from our home in Pennsylvania to Moab, Utah and back again.

The primary purpose of our trip is to see our (Y)ounger (S). YS is an interpretive park ranger at Arches National Park in Moab Utah. This is his third year working at a seasonal position in the park.

We left our home in north central Pennsylvania five days ago, arriving in Moab late yesterday afternoon. I have many stories to tell about our experiences on the way out to Utah, and I will be telling them over the next several days. But the story I want to tell first came to me yesterday on our last leg of the trip.

As we got closer to Moab, I started thinking about the nature of visit. We were going to see our “baby” (at twenty-six years old, he is the youngest of our three children) in a professional capacity.

Seemingly out of the clear blue, YS took to the semi-wilderness of the rural mountains of Pennsylvania when Husband and I moved there six years ago. We had raised our children in cities, as we had been. We never took more than an infrequent day trip to one state park or another.

YS was already in college when we moved, so his time in our new home was limited to school breaks and one summer when he waited too long to find a summer job so he landed with us for a couple of months. Those few months seemed to have flipped a switch for him. (more…)

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Today’s post is experimental. I almost never write directly on the blog; I write what I want to say in a Word document first. Some days I spend more or less time polishing it than others, but I always do some reviewing and editing.

Not today. Today I have so much to do, and so little energy, that I will either write directly here or not at all.

I had a nice chat with my Daddy on Skype this morning. I told him I was getting ready for work. Work? Daddy was confused. I retired nearly four years ago. But yes, I am working again. A dream job for a writer and voracious reader! I am now working at our tiny town’s awesome indie bookstore, From My Shelf Books (
http://www.wellsborobookstore.com/
 ). They moved from a small, basement-level space to a large, airy, building on the best corner of downtown Wellsboro, and I’m happy to say that I recently joined the staff.

Daddy kept insisting that I didn’t really grasp the concept of retirement, if I was preparing to go to “work.” I was finally able to convince him that since the point of retirement is to be able to do what you enjoy, I had a firm grasp on how to spend my “golden years.” (Truth be told, I think I’m only as far as silver years, but that’s beside the point.)

Anyway, the conversation stayed with me, and it brought me back to some thoughts I’d had a while ago. It seems that I never, ever have enough time to do everything I “must” do. I have more books on my to-read list than hours in the coming year. There is a stack of books that either I want to read and review, or I’ve promised others I would review. And I swear, I will get to that biography of Albert Einstein that has been mocking me for the past eleven months. (more…)

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There’s no such thing as a free lunch. Or, as I like to put it, there’s a price for everything.

In January, I set my writing goals for this year—publish at least one of the two novels I have in first-draft form; find another outlet to get paid for writing essays and articles, since ViewsHound went belly-up; and figure out what I want to do about writing book reviews.

All things being equal, I would love to write a novel that makes all the bestsellers lists. I’d love to go shopping for fancy new clothes to wear as I make the rounds of all the morning news shows promoting my book. It would be so cool if I had to change my phone number to unlisted to avoid the endless number of calls from avid fans. Wouldn’t it be nice to have to decide on how much to charge for speaking fees? (Actually, I have been asked several times what my fee is for reading my kids’ book Tales From Shrimps at day care centers. That is always a rush! [I have no fee; I’m thrilled to be invited.])

But all things are not equal. In the world of writing, as in most other aspects of life, you do not succeed simply by writing a great book. In fact, it seems like writing the book is the easiest part of the journey to becoming a published author.

I participate in several Facebook author/writer groups, some for support and others devoted to sharing the mechanics of self-publishing and marketing techniques. Others emphasize readying books to be submitted to agents and publishers. Blog posts and writing journals and classes abound, offering numerous perspecitives on what writers must, or must not, do (and sometimes, the advice from different sources contradict others).

One of the biggest requirements of achieving success these days is the concept of buliding your platform. An author must have a presence on Facebook, Twitter, blogs, and all the other latest social media outlets.  Numbers are important. How many followers do you have on your fan page? How many Twitter followers do you have? How many blog hits do you get? What’s your Klout score?

Once your book is published, the number chase turns to rankings. Sales rank on Amazon, paid downloads, free downloads, Goodreads members’ to-read shelves. How many stars does your book get in reviews. The higher these numbers, the more successful you are.

Or are you? More importantly, is that what success means to me?

I see how very hard authors work to attain those numbers. They spend an inordinate amount of time analyzing their numbers and determining how to increase them. And those efforts are built around the time they spend actually writing; working a day job; going to school; and taking care of kids, pets, and sometimes parents. I often wonder when they have time to sleep.

I’m happy to see others achieve whatever measure of success they are working towards; they work hard and they deserve it. But I’m not sure that these measures of success matter to me enough to pay the price, because the price is high. (more…)

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Look, there to your right, see it? The NaNo 2011 winner’s badge!

Thirty days and 50,768 words later, I won NaNo. National Novel Writing Month—actually an international challenge to write a complete 50,000-word novel in thirty days—began again just one month ago. I entered for the second time, and for the first time, I “won” as it is called. Since NaNo is a challenge, not a contest, “winning” means you finish. The only prize is bragging rights, and this year I earned them.

I had champagne chilling, and, metaphorically speaking, shoes for dancing in the streets waiting by the door.

I thought it would be grueling. After all, there was a regular life going on in November, too. My grandson was christened out of town, resulting in several days without writing. Thanksgiving loomed, which is what did me in last year. I had made several commitments to be a host on blog tours of some very deserving books. And I had some personal appearances with my kids’ book Tales From Shrimps, as well as preparations for a big appearance with the book on December 3. This wasn’t going to be easy.

But I stayed strong, ignoring the growing mess in my house, handing over almost all household duties to my husband, almost never cooking.

And sure enough, Wednesday morning at approximately 11:15 a.m., I watched the word counter at the bottom of the page turn past 50,000. I didn’t stop exactly there; not only did I want to reach the word count, I also wanted to completely finish (in first draft form, of course), my entire story. And so I wrote on for several more paragraphs until I could finally type “The End.”

I immediately did a little jig, and jumped on Facebook to declare myself a winner. I was overwhelmed by all the congratulations and good wishes from family and friends, both fellow writers and “just plain” friends. People who have been a part of my life for, well, all of my life. And people who have entered my life in the last year or so since I started actively pursuing a writing career. I was so very touched by their celebration of my victory along with me.

But then, a funny thing happened. I asked my son who was home at the time if he wanted to share some champagne with me. He declined, and…I wasn’t all that disappointed. I felt like I should have been hurt to the core that my own flesh and blood barely noticed my humungous accomplishment, and yet, I wasn’t. In fact, what I really wanted to do was write some more. Not on this NaNo book; that is complete as it is, revisions will start in January. But I had other things waiting to be written—blog posts, a contest due that same day, articles for ViewsHound. (more…)

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As regular readers of my blog know, Wednesday is book review day. But with so much of my time being devoted to NaNo, I haven’t finished reading the book I was going to review today. I make it a practice of not discussing the book I’m reviewing next, which is driving me crazy right now. I’m about halfway through the book, and I’m itching to both finish it and write about it. I won’t tell you the name of the book, but I will tell you that so far, I really like it! Hopefully by this Friday, a certain author will be happy with my review.

That was quite a tease, wasn’t it? Well, here’s another one for you. I’m going to give you another short excerpt from the novel I’m writing for NaNo. I did that for the first time last week, and I got a very good response to it. Another new experience for me. I had never had the courage before to post excerpts from my novels-in-progress. Writing is about taking chances and pushing our comfort boundaries. I’m loving that as much as I’m loving the writing.

So here’s another snippet from Do No Harm:

As April opened the back door of the Subaru, she saw something shiny on top of the pile of sweaters and sweatshirts on the back seat. Puzzled, she poked her head further in to get a better look. She jumped back with a start at what she saw. A silver gun had been placed carefully on top of the pile. Evan had been looking past the car to the gathering clouds. He whirled towards April
as she cried out.

Evan followed her shocked gaze and settled on the gun. He reached in and picked it up. Plastic. Under it was a note, neatly folded.

“It’s a toy, April. There’s a note with it.” Evan unfolded the paper and read aloud.

Here’s a present for you. You never know when you might need some protection. You know, if your boyfriend ain’t always with you. Good luck.”

As accustomed as she was to the danger of the streets, April felt unhinged at the thought of somebody breaking into her car. The theft of Harry’s ashes had upset her, but it had seemed to be targeted at Harry. This break-in left no doubt that it was directed at her personally. Who would want to harm her. And why?

Evan was already talking into his cell phone. In her shock, April hadn’t even noticed him dialing 911.

“The police will be here in a couple of minutes. I’ll stay with you until they get here.”

Sitting at the counter eating his hotdog, Bruce had an unobstructed view of April’s car. He chuckled softly as he watched her jump back when she found the present he had left for her. He laughed out loud when he saw her boyfriend call on his phone. Yeah, go ahead mister fancypants, call you up some cops. They ain’t gonna find nothin’. I’m getting pretty good at my new career. I jimmied that lock nice and clean. I didn’t leave nothin’ broke this time, not like at that camper. I’m learnin’  good now.

The counter man and the two guys at the end of the counter looked up at him when he laughed. He glared at them. “Ain’t none of your business,” he growled. They shook their heads and went back to what they were doing. Must be one of those people that hang out at the RV.  At least this guy had money, he already paid for his hotdog and coffee.

Bruce got up and threw down a crumpled dollar bill for a tip. He knew it was too much, but he was feeling generous in spite of the counter man’s nosiness. He had made that lady doctor scared. He was getting her closer to where he wanted her. Might as well share some of that happiness.

He walked out the door and sauntered slowly down the street , passing by April and Evan just as the cop car pulled up. It took all his will power not to stop and laugh out loud again. But he could be patient. He would have the last laugh soon enough. Soon enough.

By the time the police arrived, April had regained her composure. She was more angry than frightened now. Evan, however, felt an icy fear settling in, colder and darker than the storm clouds above them. He was starting to get a bad feeling. First the urn, now this. Who was after April and why?

 

 

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All social media sites that I participate in are abuzz this week with NaNo—short for NaNoWriMo, which is, in turn, short for National Novel Writing Month.

Every November, NaNo challenges writers around the world to produce a 50,000-word novel in thirty days. Yep, thirty short days.

Although 50,000 words is shorter than a typical novel, it is still a monumental goal when you try to do it along with the rest of your life: day jobs, children, housework (at least enough to keep the health department at bay), cooking (if you can get someone else to do that for your household, go for it), not to mention Thanksgiving at the end of the month.

And yet, thousands of people across the globe eagerly accept the challenge, yours truly included. (more…)

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Are you ready for NaNo? I am. At least as ready as I’m going to be.

I did NaNo for the first time last year. I had no clue what was in store for me. I had been writing essays for this blog (actually an earlier version) for several months, and I was waiting for my children’s picture book, Tales From Shrimps www.talesfromshrimps.com, to be released in December. The only time novels ever entered my mind was when I was reading them.

I had heard, over and over and over, that writers needed to write EVERY DAY, SAME TIME, SAME STATION. I wasn’t doing that, so I was feeling pretty inadequate. I was trying to develop some discipline, but it wasn’t working. My writing was sporadic at best. I was writing only when inspiration hit me, and only with a big whack at that.

That’s when I heard of NaNo. About two weeks before it started. I decided on the spot that I was going to participate. I had no idea what I would write about until several days before November 1.

Do you realize how much WORK it is to write a novel? I didn’t, not even after reading for…well, let’s just say since kindergarten and not do the math right now.

You can’t write a novel just by waiting for inspiration. Really. I tried, but no dice. To get that word count up, I had to write every day, for a long time every day. (more…)

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As some of you might know, I’m writing a novel. I started it last November as part of National Novel Writing Month. I’m about three-quarters the way through it. Recently, though, work on it had become slow. It didn’t seem to be going anywhere. I had a good beginning and an ending that I thought was great, but I couldn’t seem to connect the two in any meaningful way. But I had laid down the law to myself to finish it. I even made the deadline public, here on this blog and in a very well-received article published on www.viewshound.com. I was going to get that book done by the end of August by hook or by crook.

My husband and I took our daughter and grandbabies in without a conscious thought; it’s
what families do. The downside to me, though, was that I no longer had even one square inch of space, or time, to myself.

In the midst of all of this, I grudgingly accepted that I would have to set aside the novel
for a while and take care of the immediately pressing needs in front of me. I was sad; I felt like I was failing myself, and all those people who thought my advice was so good.

Then I read a very profound blog post by Karen Rowe. It started out sounding like a major warning about the dangers of not backing up your work. Karen told of how a recent computer crash wiped out her entire nearly finished book. Not a trace of it existed anywhere. As expected, she was
initially devastated. But her reaction next is nothing short of transforming.

Karen writes of how the experience liberated her. She, too, had been having difficulty with
where her book was going, which increasingly seemed to be nowhere, but she couldn’t let go of it, because, as Karen writes:

I see that I was hanging on too tightly to the IDEA of the book. My Ego was very
attached to its awesomeness. I had been talking about it so long, and had so
much invested that I was having a hard time letting go of it, even though it
wasn’t really working. My book had its own Facebook Fan page, its own Twitter
handle, a following of raving fans, and campaign partners all lined up to help
me with the Launch. It had the best title in the whole wide world. My book was
going to be wildly successful.
I couldn’t possibly not write it. What would people
think??

When I read those words, I felt chills. This was how I had been feeling about my book.
Although I had published a children’s picture book last year, writing that had been a happy accident. My novel was what was going to make me a “real” writer. It was all I talked about. I went to writers’ groups. I wrote about writing it on my blog, on Facebook, and on Twitter. Being a writer of a novel had become my new identity.

And I had made PROMISES. To myself, to those writers’ groups, to my Facebook friends and
Twitter followers. I would be a fraud if I didn’t finish it by the deadline that I, alone, had set as if in stone.

But in the short time that it took to read Karen’s blog post, a peace settled on me. The deadline
I had set was arbitrary. I owed nothing to my friends, followers, and readers other than honesty. And the honesty was that at this point in time, I needed to set aside my novel. It’s tempting to say that the reason was the crisis with my daughter, but the truth is I was not going where I needed to go with the novel. I had lost the story, concentrating only on being able to shout to my world
that I FINISHED THE BOOK! I was deliberately throwing down crap just to get to the finish line.

And so I let it go. I gave it a kiss, tucked it to sleep, and said “I’ll be back when the time is right.”

Karen’s words made me realize that this temporary separation was not a failure. Instead, it was a sign of strength. I had the courage to stand up straight, throw my shoulders back, and say, “No, I am not currently working on my novel. I will again when the time is right, but for now, I need a break.” I didn’t feel like I was letting anyone down, least of all myself.

It has been a few weeks now. My daughter and her family have taken an apartment near their
home while they wait out the months of restoration ahead of them. It took me and my husband some time to get our house back in order; putting away toys, moving furniture back to their original places, tending our neglected garden.

A few days ago, I sat down with the novel for the first time in over a month. I read the most recent chapters to get back into the story and reacquaint myself with the characters. And then I started writing. Tentatively at first, but I soon found myself in a new rhythm. Not one of just throwing down words, but of working carefully to make the story right. The word count will come later, when the story, the right story, is finished.

I have plenty of writing knowledge. Heck, my undergraduate degree is in writing. I was a business writer and editor many years ago. Since I returned to writing, I have read more blog posts on writing advice than I can count and I follow the success stories of writers I admire. Writing I know. Perspective I didn’t.

Thank you, Karen Rowe, for what has turned out to be the best writing advice I’ve ever read. And, I suspect, some of the best life advice I’m likely to need, also.

 

 

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In Leah’s Wake by Terri Giuliano Long has been a phenomenal success. As the book’s one-year anniversary nears, Terri’s book has won awards and topped best-seller lists in the US. She has sold the UK rights, and a Turkish editor is requesting information on translation rights for that country.

 This is what happens when you combine a superbly written book, self-publishing, outstanding social media marketing, and passionate readers!

In order to concentrate on writing her second book (I can’t wait!), Terri is stepping back from her own involvement in marketing In Leah’s Wake and leaving it in the capable hands of her editor. To commerate her success and wish her well on her next book, I’m re-posting my review of the book, first published this past April. If you haven’t read this book yet, do yourself a favor and pick up a copy, paper or electronic.

Best of luck Terri!! (more…)

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Today I’m being twitterviewed by Novel Publicity!  Come join us at 4 p.m. #emlyn. Learn all my deep, dark writing secrets!!

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Whew, this was quite a week.

My beautiful daughter labored for three days to bring her son into the world. That little bugger just didn’t want to leave his home for the past nine months.

My husband and I spend three days in my daughter’s home town waiting…and waiting…and waiting.

Wednesday evening, we just had to come home. My husband had to work Thursday morning, and I had a doctor’s appointment.

Not long after we got home, the news came that baby was being taken against his will from his warm “first” home into the bright lights of this one. Of course, as a mother myself, my heart was hurting for the pain my daughter was going through, and for her deep disappointment in how the labor had turned out. Certainly not how she had planned.

And then, he was here. All seven-plus pounds of him. And he’s so gorgeous!!  And I won’t be able to drive back to see him until next Sunday. Aarghh.

All of this commotion left me precious little time to write. I made the choice to let the blog go, and spend what little writing time I was able to carve out working on my novel. I’m so near the finish line, I can just taste it.

I should be able to get back on schedule here, starting today. Thanks for being patient with me. And I promise that all my posts won’t be about the baby, really! I’ll be back to book reviews and musings on writing and reading.

Happy weekend to y’all. See you next Monday!

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If you’re working on a novel, or even a non-fiction book, writing in dribs and drabs whenever you “get a chance” just won’t cut it. You need discipline in a way that works for you. We all need some form of discipline, in ways that work for us individually.

Here are some ways to keep your heiny in your chair and your fingers on the keyboard—

1. Set the date for the end goal. 

 When I was a social/health services administrator for twenty years, I had nothing but deadlines—grant proposals, grant reports, fundraising goals, board presentations, filling a vacant position, etc. It could seem overwhelming. My method of dealing with all of those deadlines was the same—schedule the end goal, and work backward to today to parcel out what had to be done when. I very rarely missed a deadline this way.

This is my first novel; I have no agent, no editor, no external deadline to reach, which was enabling me to fritter away countless hours on Facebook, Twitter, online newspapers, etc. At that rate, I’d never get the book done.

So I fell back on my successful process—I set the end goal of when I would have a product finished enough to have a professional editor look at it. Then I backed up to where I am now, and figured out the timeline I needed to meet to get from today to that day. (more…)

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Building a blog is an ongoing process. Take out one brick, put in another, or two. This blog is basically for adults.  But my only published book so far is a kids’ picture book, Tales From Shrimps, www.talesfromshrimps.com. I tried to mix both adult posts and kids post on this blog, but the kids stuff fell flat pretty quickly.

So, I’m in the process of creating another blog just for the kids’ stuff.  (I’ll let you know when that’s ready for any of you who are interested.)

That leaves the question of what to do on Thursdays here.  I have two ideas:  the first one is to do reviews of “contemporary erotic romance”, as author Annie Rayburn www.annierayburn.com and others calls their work.

The other thought is to present links to sites I find that I think you would enjoy.

Today, I’ll do both. I’ll give you a short review of Annie Rayburn’s Bittersweet Obsessions, and a small list of links.

 Let me know in the comment section which you like best.  I think I’ll do a mix of both for several weeks to get a feel for what is the most popular.  Of course, doing both is also an option, or even alternating one week to the next.

Bittersweet Obssessions by Annie Rayburn

Teriza recognizes her life-mate by the flushing of her skin, her deepened breathing, and a throbbing warmth that spreads throughout her body.  It is the uniquely Crainesian life-mate call. But one thing stands in their way—Deacon’s human wife, Sallie.

After relocating from a dying planet to Earth many decades ago, the Crainesian race has assimilated almost completely into Earthly cultures, with one major exception. “Crainys” mate for life, and almost always to their Crainesian life-mate.  Some Crainys, however, have abandoned that practice and marry humans. Those unions can be successful, as long as the Crainy does not come across their true life-mate.

Serious physical harm comes to Crainys who remain in the presence of their life-mates but resist the call. With a strong emphasis on fidelity, Crainys almost never break up an existing marriage, so Teriza must escape Deacon’s presence before she suffers irreparable harm; it is almost too late.

To repair her physically, Teriza’s family arranges for her to visit a specialized clinic in Switzerland, which uses sexual surrogates to heal suffering Crainys.

Thus is the setting for a story that is sweet and sizzling at the same time. The love stories among the cast of characters are touching. Love, respect, commitment, and fidelity are the foundations of their relationships. But that doesn’t stop the Crainys from steaming up the windows in their bedrooms, cars, and even locker rooms.

If you like your erotica within the context of a love story with a happy ending, a story that could easily stand on its own without all the “steamy” stuff (although you wouldn’t want to leave the sizzle out), check out Bittersweet Obsessions, and Rayburn’s other books.


http://annierayburn.com/

Bittersweet Obsessions
Publisher: Red Sage Publishing, Inc.
Genre: Contemporary/Paranormal/Sci-Fi/Erotic
Format: eBook

Okay, now for the links.

First of all, run, do not walk, to
http://writermason.blogspot.com/
.  One of Pamela V Mason’s newest features on her blog is called “Design Write”. She presents a variety of organizational and gorgeous design advice to make your writing space, and the rest of your home, more efficient as well as gorgeous. In one afternoon, I transformed by obstacle course of a bedroom/writing space into a fully organized and spacious area. I have substantially increased my writing productivity because I am now so comfy. True story!

Before Pamela's magic.

 

After following Pamela's advice.

 

 

 

 

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Short musings today!

It’s been an incredibly busy week–I’ve had my sweeties since Sunday.  We’ve had a whirlwind of fun activities, interspersed with five days of four-hour drives each day, including one today and another tomorrow.  That doesn’t leave much time for writing or reading, does it?

I did make it to poetry night at the bookstore, however, although I just couldn’t drag myself out to writers’ group last night. 

The good news is that I’ve written two essays in my head during all that driving.  Sunday will be the first day I’ll have alone at home, so you just know that’s going to be a marathon writing day!

My reading is going well, finished one book and wrote the review.  I’ll be able to finish the next one in time for that review next Wednesday.

Actually, as I read over the above paragraphs, I think I’ve done pretty well with writing and reading, considering I’m in constant motion trying to keep up with four-year-old twins, and loving it!

These are such precious times.  I love having the girls with me.  They live so far away (hence the four-hour drives);  having this chunk of time with them is awesome.

So, I’ll be back here right on schedule next week, and loving that, too.  My life is full, I have so much to be grateful for.

 

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It had been a couple of weeks since I last worked on my novel, so yesterday I sat down to read it from the beginning to re-orient myself.  Oh, the horror.  It is the worst writing ever to pass through my fingers.

Although I am new to fiction, I do have a degree in writing and had a short career (before having children) as a business writer and editor.  Add to that 20 years of writing grant proposals and program reports, and I’ve done quite a bit of writing in my time.

But this…this…sorry excuse for what I’m calling a novel?  Yikes. (more…)

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My new feature, reviews of children’s books, will no longer be posted here on Thursdays. 

I have a new blog under construction, one that will be dedicated only to children’s books, literature, and other kid-related issues.  My reviews of kids’ books will move on over there.

I’ll have occasional news and notes about my book, Tales From Shrimps, here on “Life Is Short,” but much of that book will also move to the new blog.

Stay tuned for the official opening, where the beat of the kid lit world will go on!

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Today’s recycling is not an older post that I’m publishing again.  It’s the recycling of my quest to increase my tech skills.

Yesterday, I was oh so smug, believing that I had mastered the skill of adding videos to my blog posts.

As I was weeding in my garden shortly after I posted that proud story, a thought hit me harder than the rocks I was digging out of the garden—I hadn’t added a video; all I had done was add a link to a YouTube video.  Hells bells, I learned how to add links last year.

I think what I meant to do was “embed” a video into the post.

So, I’m back, trying again.  Let’s see if I can get it right today. 

OK, seven hours later and I still haven’t figured it out.  Of course, I haven’t been working on it for the entire seven hours, only about two, but the result is, it’s not going to happen today.

But no worries, I will continue my journey to educate myself in the ways of the tech world. 

Stay tuned;  at some time or another, I WILL be successful and you will be the first to know.

In the meantime, I’ll be back tomorrow with my regular Wednesday book review. See you then.

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Today I’m taking a step forward in my cache of tech skills.  I uploaded a video to YouTube, and I’m including it in today’s blog post.  True story!

I’ve read all the other blogs and websites about how to make your blog more attractive:  always add pictures, keep the paragraphs short, keep the posts short, blog early and often, and add videos. 

I’ve learned how to do the first four things, albeit with some difficulties at first, but I’ve been so intimidated by the video thing.  The advice is given so blithely, as though we all spring forth from the womb knowing how to do this.  Well, I didn’t. (more…)

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